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Become Your Own Miracle. A Cure to Depression.

Updated: Jan 7, 2021


There is nothing more rewarding than to receive feedback that you have been used by the divine to orchestrate a miracle on the behalf of someone in need of it. The satisfaction that comes from being someone's answer to prayer is truly rewarding. Yet, what does it mean to be your "own" miracle? The definition of a miracle is: "A surprising and welcome event that is not explicable by natural or scientific laws and is therefore considered to be the work of a divine agency."

First of all before you can become a miracle, you have to figure out if you need one. How do you know if you need a miracle in your life? Here are a few ways to know.


1. You've thought the thought "I need a miracle"

2. Your financial state is not suiting you.

3. You are at odds with yourself or the way you are.

4. You feel lost and hopeless over a situation that isn't resolving for you.

5. You experience despair on a day to day basis and are caught up in things that you honestly don't want to do.

6. You are bitter about your circumstance. You wonder how you ended up where you are now in this place not fully serving you. You wonder why you cannot get to your destiny.

7. You see good things happening for others and not yourself.

8. You are not living from a place of wonderment and joy because life has become dull.

9.You let circumstance drive you instead of your intentions.

10. Your not in the driver seat of your life. You are letting others decide your happiness for you.

11. You have very little expectation for anything more and the hope for dreams coming true is a thing of the past.

12. You find yourself in victim mode constantly.


How exactly do we become our own divine agency and create miraculous life? It's starts with wanting a miracle to happen in your life to create change for the better. It comes from the realization that wallowing in sadness, despair, and regret will not help your current situation. Waiting for a miracle to change your circumstance won't help either. However, you CAN become your own miracle to transcend your situation.


"How do I become a miracle?" you might ask. Well, I am going to give you insight into my own situation and the steps and beliefs systems I used to become my own miracle. A few years ago it seemed as though everything was working perfectly for me. I was living the dream life. I saw miracles every day. I was a miracle for others. Suddenly out of nowhere I was hit by a life altering crisis. Not just one, but many. It took a few traumatic events to spiral me down into a low state. This switched me from living from the heart with joy to living by default to survive. During this time I made life altering decisions that drove me further from my truth and capacity to see or invoke miracles. I found myself wallowing despair and reeling in shock at how quickly my life flipped upside down. Every decision I made during this time of despair pulled me further off track. I lost faith in myself and doubted my own capacity to make decisions. I became vulnerable to criticism and lack of faith from others. Mostly I was targeted by those who didn't understand the crisis I had been through. This further fed my brokenness which resulted in a continual state of depression. My track record of success became a distance memory. I remember looking in the mirror one day when I was at rock bottom to see a shadow of my former self. This is when I realized that I needed to become my own miracle. If not for myself, for my daughters who were watching me as an example. As soon as I realized I needed to stop waiting for a miracle, I set to work becoming my own miracle. Here's a few steps I discovered that lead to the process.

  1. I learned that being not OK is OK as long as you do something about it and take steps to become ok. This means kicking into action. Setting to work distancing yourself from the broken version of yourself.

  2. I started to dream again. I made a wish list for things and good outcomes I wanted. No matter how old you are or your circumstance, you can still set new expectations. Start with the smaller and go for the bigger dreams. Oftentimes after a loss we loose heart and vision. Proverbs 29:18. If I couldn't come up with anything new, I would revisit the dreams I had for my life in the past then built on those.

  3. I started taking steps towards my destiny. Even if you don't know your destiny, do what is in front of you to feel accomplished. This will put you on the path to discovering a destiny and a purpose.

  4. I stopped doing what others wanted me to do or things I thought I should be doing. I took the power to live a vibrant life back into my own hands.

  5. I unfriended the programming that kept me feeling lost during the day and embraced a winner mentality.

  6. I made it a habit to invest back into me every day. I set reasonable expectations on how much time I could spend refilling my tank everyday doing what I wanted to do. It can be difficult to reserve all your time for you if you have other responsibilities like family, work or the essentials. That's why I set a certain amount of time aside for myself and mapped out steps each day of how I would use that time.

  7. I got outside the belief that I was a "failure". Just because the path I landed on didn't seem to be suiting me in the moment, I made a promise to myself to redirect and find my best path which would bring me the most joy. When you are operating from a place of joy you are living in the highest version of yourself. That is why it is important to align yourself to joy by seeking it.

  8. I started proclaiming freedom, faith, and favor over my life everyday. I called in restoration of my soul to resurrect the miracle version of me. Using words to reinstating new thought processes helped bring the restoration to my mind. I used elevated thinking to align me to more joy and purpose.

  9. I talked with those I could trust. Having a listening ear and someone positive in your life who will hold you accountable is key to repairing from grief and growing. Being able to talk to them, discuss, and receive caring helpful feedback is key to feeling more included and less isolated and lost.

  10. Seeking help when overwhelmed. When you have too much on your plate there is little time to focus on healing. Enlist the help of others to free up your time. For example, I have some simple expectations in my family day to day life that I like to keep. One of them is gathering the family around the table for a meal atleast once a day so we can check in with each other. Yet this simple task was adding so much to my already full schedule. I decided to let my daughters have fun making the meals a couple times a week. Need I say they are excellent chefs and this opportunity gave them a chance to be responsible and grow their talents. Ordering out or going out to dinner was also a great option.

  11. I started watching and expecting additional miracles. By expecting miracles and staying in the flow of joy made me more apt to attract them. Slowly by slowly with help of these miracles I was able to see my life coming back together.

  12. I went back to that which brought me joy in the past. Anything that I used to love to do I would partake. I would do this to ignite the passion I once felt. Then I would redirect this passion to other things.

  13. I envisioned myself as the miracle. This one is hard to do. If you really embrace the idea that you can be a miracle, you start to see yourself perform differently and do wonderful things for yourself and others.

At the end of the day we are carrying the capacity to become our own and someone else's miracle. How are you becoming your own miracle today? Leave me a comment below.




 
 
 

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